Have you ever got a girl’s number, messaged her the next day and the girl doesn’t text back? Have you ever wanted to know what to text a girl to get her out on a date with you? Read on.
Tip 1: What most guys don’t understand is that a woman giving you her number does not automatically mean that she plans to talk to you later, or go on a date with you. Even if a girl told you to call her while you were getting her number, doesn’t mean she will definitely pick up the phone the next day. Fact is, the game is not over when you get her number. The game has just begun.
The reason why a woman may ask you to call her and then not pick up the next day is rooted in female psychology. Women live in a sea of emotions. When she met you she was in a fun, flirtatious, social mood. At the time, she probably did intend to talk to you on the phone or even go on a date with you. She was interested in you at that moment. It is likely that the next day she will be in a different mood or emotional state. You want to use text messages to get her back to that fun emotional state and draw out her flirtatious vibe so that you can get her out on a date with you.
Having good ‘phone game’ so to speak, can be a crucial piece of your overall strategy for meeting women. If your phone game is not up to scratch you could be losing tons of opportunities with women you meet. Watch this video to learn what to do when the girl doesn’t text back and how to stop being her text-buddy when she doesn’t actually intend to meet up.
Tip 2: There is a narrow window of opportunity a guy has once he gets a woman’s phone number. The longer it takes to get her to meet up with you, the less likely it is that you will ever see her again.
Women believe in ‘romance’ and ‘chemistry’. A woman believes that if there is chemistry between her and a man, things will move along quickly and spontaneously. The truth is that it is the guy’s job to make the moves and get things moving in the right direction. The woman will usually not be the one making the moves so you need to take action.
When a guy spends too much time texting her, and doesn’t MEET HER IN PERSON, she ends up talking herself out of going on a date with him. She thinks to herself “we probably don’t have chemistry or it would have happened already.”
You MUST use good text messages to move from getting a girl’s number- to getting her out on a date as quickly as possible.
Tip 3: The phone is just a bridge from when you both first met, to your ‘first date’. You want to meet up with her so that you can re-establish some of the connection and attraction she had for you when she first met you. This is much easier to do in person than it is over text.
A lot of guys fall into the trap of becoming her ‘text buddy’ and thinking that they are actually moving the relationship forward. Until one day she stops texting back or takes longer and longer to reply. Before you know it, she is dating someone else. Trying to build attraction through text is like trying to build a bridge while you’re on the bridge. Don’t spend months texting her interesting things or trying to convince her you’re a good guy and that you like her. Instead concentrate on sending her a few well-timed text messages that get her curious and intrigue her to meet up with you.
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